{"id":1948,"date":"2021-01-21T16:25:15","date_gmt":"2021-01-21T16:25:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.om-biz.com\/blog\/?p=1948"},"modified":"2021-01-21T16:30:17","modified_gmt":"2021-01-21T16:30:17","slug":"post-divorce-issue-11-raising-high-achievers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.om-biz.com\/blog\/post-divorce-issue-11-raising-high-achievers\/","title":{"rendered":"Post Divorce Issue #11: Raising High Achievers"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.om-biz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/70c32f_c6608f1ae6484020af17fff35dff615d.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1949\" width=\"887\" height=\"591\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.om-biz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/70c32f_c6608f1ae6484020af17fff35dff615d.jpg 507w, https:\/\/www.om-biz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/70c32f_c6608f1ae6484020af17fff35dff615d-250x167.jpg 250w, https:\/\/www.om-biz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/70c32f_c6608f1ae6484020af17fff35dff615d-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 887px) 100vw, 887px\" \/><figcaption>Penn State linebacker Jason Cabinda lifts weights at Lift for Life held on Lacrosse Field in State College, Pa., on Saturday, July 11, 2015. All proceeds benefit the Kidney Cancer Association in conjunction with Uplifting Athletes. Penn State has raised over $100,000 for Uplifting Athletes and the Kidney Cancer Association four years in a row. (Joe Hermitt\/PennLive.com via AP)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Children come first. As parents we feel very successful if our children have met half of our expectations for them, and more than half of their expectations for themselves. If you\u2019re a lawyer, the tendency for you as a [lawyer] parent may be to raise a Judge; if you\u2019re a nurse, you may hope that your child becomes a doctor. Be sure to balance&nbsp;your&nbsp;expectations with what makes&nbsp;your child&nbsp;happy and fulfilled. It is important to pay attention to what skills your child already has and to foster their talents and interests. The following additional links give you more ideas on how to best help your child after divorce:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>&nbsp;http:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/parenting\/articles\/1009699\/tips-for-co-parenting-after-divorce<\/li><li>http:\/\/www.drphil.com\/articles\/article\/242<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>To put your children on a successful path so that the divorce experience instead propels&nbsp;them into becoming high achievers, join the conversation&nbsp;and let me walk&nbsp;you through the process.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Subscribe\u00a0<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"http:\/\/www.regrouprefocusrebuild.com\/\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>NOW<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Facebook: &nbsp;<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/regrouprefocusrebuild\" target=\"_blank\">www.facebook.com\/regrouprefocusrebuild<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Twitter:&nbsp;<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"http:\/\/www.twitter.com\/cabindanatalie\" target=\"_blank\">@nataliecabinda<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>P.S: Your email address is safe with us.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Children come first. As parents we feel very successful if our children have met half of our expectations for them, and more than half of their expectations for themselves. If you\u2019re a lawyer, the tendency for you as a [lawyer] parent may be to raise a Judge; if you\u2019re a nurse, you may hope that &hellip;<\/p>\n<p class=\"read-more\"> <a class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.om-biz.com\/blog\/post-divorce-issue-11-raising-high-achievers\/\"> <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Post Divorce Issue #11: Raising High Achievers<\/span> Read More &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":false,"thumbnail":false,"medium":false,"medium_large":false,"large":false,"1536x1536":false,"2048x2048":false,"woocommerce_thumbnail":false,"woocommerce_single":false,"woocommerce_gallery_thumbnail":false,"shop_catalog":false,"shop_single":false,"shop_thumbnail":false},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"Natalie Cabinda","author_link":"https:\/\/www.om-biz.com\/blog\/author\/natalie-cabinda\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Children come first. 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